You should not ignore these signs of your partner if you do not want to be stuck in an unhealthy relationship.

First dates can be full of uncertainty; we’re often nervous, wanting to make the best impression. But in our eagerness, we can sometimes miss important warning signs—either out of fear of missing out, or out of hope that the relationship will progress positively. But if your partner exhibits any of the following signs, a second date may not be worth considering.

They overshare and expect you to do the same.

Imagine a date that starts off fairly normal. You ask a few questions to get to know the other person, but then the conversation takes an unexpected turn. Your initial attempts at socializing and being friendly are replaced by excessive disclosures, delving into uncomfortable topics. The other person starts talking about exes, their romantic history, and even past hurts—things you didn’t expect on a first date. Then they look at you as if they’re expecting to hear the same story, or worse, they think it’s your “turn” and start asking personal, pressured questions. If you feel uncomfortable in such situations, that&#39;s a perfectly reasonable response. According to a 2015 study by &nbsp; According to the International Encyclopedia of the Social &amp; Behavioral Sciences, oversharing can signal a major problem — a lack of boundaries between private and public life. Intimacy should be built over time, as both partners feel comfortable and ready to open up. Skipping light conversation to delve deeper into intimate matters may seem like a sincere gesture, but it actually reflects a lack of boundaries—or worse, a lack of respect for your personal boundaries.

They do not accept rejection.

Imagine a date is winding down. When you politely say goodbye, the other person doesn’t agree easily. They insist, “Just one more drink!” or suggest, “Why don’t we go for two?” Even though you’ve clearly said no, they continue to try to convince you, even getting annoyed and making sarcastic comments. It’s natural to feel uncomfortable in this situation. “Negotiation can easily turn into manipulation when someone doesn’t know how to communicate in a healthy way,” explains Taylor Counseling Group, a Texas-based mental health and personal development firm. “People who haven’t yet achieved emotional maturity often have difficulty dealing with rejection, which can lead them to try to force others to meet their needs.” At a mild level, someone who behaves this way is displaying a transactional approach to the relationship, treating you as a means to an end in exchange for their time and money. At a severe level, the inability to accept rejection can be a sign of narcissism. As Taylor Counseling Group explains, “Narcissists may be easily angered by rejection and lack empathy for the feelings of others.” Because of their need to satisfy their needs and their fear of failure, they may be willing to pressure you into making decisions just to meet their desires.

You&#39;re not sure if they&#39;re really interested in going on a date.

Imagine you’re on a date, trying your best to make meaningful conversation, opening up to learn more about the other person. Instead, their response is a mild “Oh, that’s great” or “That’s okay.” Worse, their eyes wander around the room, or occasionally down to their phone screen. By the end of the date, despite your best efforts, you can’t help but wonder: were they really interested in the date, or in you? A 2022 study from Personal Relationships highlighted the importance of “responsiveness” in relationships, calling it “the foundation of intimacy.” For a relationship to have a real chance of thriving, both partners need to feel genuinely cared for by the other person. This can be demonstrated through simple gestures like attentive listening or sharing feedback. When your partner only responds superficially, you can easily feel ignored or rejected. While they may not mean to be indifferent, if they don’t show interest, it’s hard to gauge whether they truly value you, and it can make you wonder if you’re on the same page. In most cases, this distance is a sign of emotional unavailability—that your partner isn’t willing, or able, to connect on a deeper level. The first step in determining whether a relationship has potential is genuine interest and effort from both parties. If they don’t show it on the first date, it could be a clear sign that they’ll have a hard time reciprocating later on. After all, the foundation for a lasting relationship starts with those first dates – and if there’s a lack of interest, letting go could be the right choice. Photo: Cosmopolitian Korea

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